You can start off tame, with a little message that says, “I miss your arms around me” or “I want to kiss you right now.” As you start to feel more comfortable, up the naughty factor with texts like, “I wish you were here in bed next to me.” If you still feel unsure of how to phrase your thoughts, try reading erotic fiction for inspiration.
Get a sense of which words feel more natural to you than others. Next, try sending him an email describing what you’d like to do to him the next time you two see each other.
Send each other little messages throughout the day, teasing each other until the next time you’re able to speak or see each other in person.
For example, “I can’t wait to tell you about this hot dream I had about you last night.
Remember that it’s still you and your boyfriend being intimate.